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Neptune’s retrograde begins on Tuesday morning, and as the planet of dreams and illusion moves retrograde (it won’t station direct until early December), it becomes easier for you to clearly understand situations and see people for who they are — for the better. Or worse. Illusions can be comforting, but this is the time to work with reality. Communication planet Mercury also moves into warm and confident Leo on Tuesday morning. Over the next three weeks, do your best to bear the good will of those around you. The more you treat others with generosity, the more they will do the same for you. Finally, on Friday evening, the new moon in Cancer offers you an opportunity to move forward. The dramas, confusing relationships, or emotional issues that have recently shaped your life will not define you forever. You get to choose what comes next. In the meantime, find your weekly horoscope for each zodiac sign below.
When the world around you is so wonderful and exciting, filled with so many new places to visit and people to meet, your home life can sometimes become an afterthought. Why sit inside when you can go out and do some things? The things? Try to pay more attention to your home this week, whether that means tidying it up, rearranging the furniture, or having a late-night conversation about chores with the people you live with. Your living space is important to your happiness, and if you take the time to care for it, you’ll be surprised at how brighter life can be.
You’re likely to form new relationships this week by simply getting out into the world and being yourself. Chatting with strangers, attending events where you don’t know anyone, meeting friends of your friends – there are plenty of opportunities for new people to come into your life. The key is to moderate your expectations, and not pin all your hopes on one person. Don’t think too much about the future, and don’t worry about whether the people you meet now will become important in your life or not. Keep an open mind and see what develops.
You are a champion at laughing at your problems, turning every sadness or embarrassment into a joke. On the one hand, your sense of humor makes you incredibly resilient; on the other hand, it also makes it difficult to allow yourself to be truly vulnerable. As uncomfortable or painful as it may be, you have to embrace it deeply. Feel Don’t ignore, dismiss, or dismiss your feelings with sarcasm. Spend time with people who won’t be put off by your honesty this week. You can get back to the jokes later. Right now, you need space to be kind.
It’s nice to have supportive friends to turn to when you don’t believe in yourself, people who encourage you, lift you up, and openly talk about how amazing they think you are. It’s okay to lean on others when you need support—that mutual care is one of the most wonderful parts of being human. But this week, you may find that you don’t need a lot of outside validation. Your self-confidence is coming back to you. You know that you are smart, strong, and amazing, and you’re going to make the most of it.
You’ve felt like you’ve been spinning your wheels lately. No matter how hard you work, you’re not making the progress you want; No matter how many different ways you try to show your abilities, you will not be recognized as much as you want. At such times, you tend to react by pushing yourself harder. But this week, it will be more effective for gas relief instead. If you do the bare minimum right now, and instead focus on resting and recharging, you’ll come out on the other side stronger and happier.
Lately, you have been feeling out of sync with the people around you. Maybe you’re worried that you’re outsmarting your friends – or so they Excellence YouIt may feel like none of them understand what you’re going through. It’s easy to feel better if you stay away from them this week and keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. But this is the worst thing you can do right now. No one can show up for you if you don’t give them the chance. Keeping an open heart seems unbearably vulnerable, but it’s the only way to find and maintain the relationships and community you need.
You may feel unusually insecure, even if you’re usually confident and self-assured. You may worry that you’re not as smart as you want to be, that you’re not as successful as you “should” be, or that others don’t see you the way you see yourself. The key is to not take your worries too seriously this week. Sometimes self-doubt is helpful, but more often than not, it holds you back. Don’t hold back on your ambitious goals, and don’t accept less than you deserve from the people in your life. Keep asking for what you need.
You understand others so well because you know how to pay attention to the little things, like their body language, and the things they don’t talk about. You’re tuned not only to What They say it, but also the way they choose to express themselves. This makes you hyper-perceptive, but it can also distract you from the big picture. Sometimes, it’s best not to devote a lot of your mind space to every little detail, and instead, simply pay attention to how the people around you affect you. Feel. You’re allowed to want relationships with people who make you feel good about yourself, and it doesn’t have to go any deeper than that.
You are easy-going and likeable, and you make new friends wherever you go. But you may start to feel that your social energy is becoming too weak. When you divide your time between too many acquaintances, you never get a chance to go deeper, build true intimacy, and allow others to see beyond the surface of your personality. Keeping things light is a good thing. EasierSure, it takes less effort and there’s less risk of getting hurt, but this week, prioritize quality over quantity in your relationships. You won’t regret it.
If you want to accomplish anything, I’ve learned that you need to do it yourself. As much as you can, Wants In order to be able to rely on others, she has been burned too many times. At this point, you would rather work independently than risk stress and disappointment from your friends or colleagues who drop the ball. But this week, there’s a lot to do; It is impossible to take all this upon yourself. Try to figure out how you can share the load. You’re used to standing alone, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be different.
When you feel like you’re lost, drifting through life and wasting your time, a solid daily routine can make a huge difference, giving you the support you need. The problem is that it has to be a routine that really works for you; Getting it wrong will only leave you frustrated and feeling trapped. If the habits and structures you have now aren’t working for you, this is the perfect opportunity to change them. Figure out how you want to spend your days, then make plans that will actually help you Do This is one of the best ways you can take care of yourself right now.
When it comes to your work, your relationships, and even your life choices in general, you imagine that you have to choose: you can feel secure. or You may feel excited, but not both. It’s like if you want to do work that’s stimulating and fulfilling, you’ll never feel safe; And if you want a supportive, stable love, you’ll have to give up that extra spark. But just because it’s hard to find both doesn’t mean it’s impossible, no matter what anyone else tells you. Assume that it is possible to find everything you need, and don’t settle for less.
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